It can happen to anyone. Sure it's upsetting, but anxiety won't help the situation. It could have something to do with change in your life, launching at the south end for the first time since early May. But keep your confidence up; you know what you're doing: leisurely foreplay with Damselator and stimulator, then the muddler, some small dry flies, and even a long. slow troll with three different flies. It just didn't work this time. But don't worry; this is temporary. In the meantime, enjoy the love and intimacy of these special moments. In the long run, this can make your relationship stronger.